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How to give out-of- this-world oral sex to your woman.
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Written Answer (transcript of audio):
1. What exactly is the clitoris?
If you want to know how to get a woman off, you better become best friends with this hot spot!
The clitoris is a shaft of engorgeable tissue, built very similar to a penis, with a sexually sensitive head at its tip, just like the head of a small penis, only much smaller. Unlike the shaft of the penis which is free-hanging, the shaft of the clitoris lays vertically along the body's midline, just beneath a soft layer of skin. The shaft of the clitoris reaches down toward the vagina and then splits to each side. The clit has a foreskin or prepuce otherwise known as the clitoral hood and when it's aroused the foreskin retracts, exposing the glands of the clitoris, the little button that is often confused as the entire organ.
It is somewhat difficult for a woman to have an orgasm without attention to this area. Men who think they can just pump away at the vagina to get the woman off, without somehow stimulating the clit are in for a big surprise, and disappointment. Deep inside the vagina are very few sexually stimulatable nerve endings. These nerve endings increase toward the outer end of the vagina and are most concentrated where it curves outward toward the vulvar opening and upward to the clitoris. It's important to remember this and pay more attention to the areas that will actually get you somewhere.
2. How do I find the clitoris?
Use your fingers and lightly touch between her legs, taking one finger up the center to her clit. If you are unfamiliar with where the clit is, and easy way is to find the vaginal opening and then take your finger up to the sexy button hidden under the clitoral hood. (See Photo) or for a more formal definition of location....
"The CLITORIS is an exquisitely sensitive organ that lies just under the mons, the area of fatty tissue that forms a soft mound over the pubic bone. It is covered by the inner lips which can be gently pushed back to reveal the tip (the head or glands). The rest of the clitoris can be seen because it extends inside the body. The clitoris is extremely sensitive to stimulation and when stimulated it becomes erect. Although direct stimulation of the tip of the clitoris is pleasurable for some women it is uncomfortable and even painful for others."
Another, less inventive way to find it is to just ask her where she likes to be touched or licked and she will undoubtedly lead you right to it! It also helps to communicate with her about how she likes it to be touched because some like it hard and some like it gentle.
3. What do I do when I find it?
Now that you have found the hidden treasure, let the fun begin! Remembering the sensitivity of this organ, start gently rubbing around the clit, at first avoiding direct contact. Then as she becomes excited, her vaginal area will become slippery and her clitoris will expand into a firm little bud (see above). At this time you can try some direct contact and heavier pressure.
One of the nicest feelings for her is to gently lick the clitoris with the tip of your tongue. While you are at it, you can lick the entrance to her vagina getting the whole area nice and slippery. At this point you can gently slide a finger inside. While keeping contact with your tongue on her clit, position your finger inside as if you are motioning "come here" to someone to find her g-spot. Stimulating both these areas at the same time will get her very excited and will give her an amazing orgasm.
There are many ways to get a woman off orally. Sometimes it's fun to add toys, especially those that vibrate her clit with enthusiasm. Other times licking her clit and sliding a dildo inside her will guarantee an out of this world orgasm.
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