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Bart : Welcome to Sex Secrets
Revealed! My name is Bart Baggett and with me is my co-author
and co-host Stephanie Glenn.
Stephanie : Hi! Bart, it's great to
be here.
Bart : This is so exciting I tell
you and we're going to be talking about some things you don't
hear everyday on a home-study course.
Stephanie : Boy, that's for sure. Some
of the things that we have found out together by just exploring
what it is that these sex secrets are, I mean, I am already,
just blown away…
Bart : I can't wait to try some
of the new ones you've actually taught me while we were going
over the script here.
Stephanie : (Laughs)… You bet!
There is definitely some special energy about throwing this back
and forth and …
Bart : I can't imagine anybody
looking at these 80+ questions we've created and not finding
two or three that are just.. "Oh! My God! I'm insatiably
curious about how to solve this", because, you know even
though we ask all these questions together, individually, I didn't
know all the answers, and together we have created some phenomenal
new concepts that you are not going to find in any other books,
and if you look around, of course you can't see this now, but
we've got this table full of books and resources, best-selling
audios and best-selling videos of other experts in the field
and we have extracted some of their 'pearls of wisdom' to really
find out, because I don't want you to go through 15 years of
research in Psychology, Sex Ed, and NLP and Hypnosis like I did,
so that you can have a good relationship.
Stephanie : Absolutely. For me, one
of the things in talking to you about this is, that I can ask
you frank questions about how men feel, about what they think
about women sexually, and what they think about pleasing women
and what women think about pleasing men and you know it's really
brought a lot of things to light that I just had no idea were
issues for us.
Bart : Well, and sometimes it
is a little revealing, because as a man, you know, sometimes
I'm a piggish guy and I hate to admit it, but I will be as 100%
honest as I can through this and I'll use myself as an example,
and you and me have had different lovers at different times,
it's not that. One of the great things about doing this sort
of course is, this is not to professors in college, talking about
the theory of the orgasm. This is to people who have lots of
psychological and therapeutic background. People, who also date,
who are also lovers, in a sense that we have all been doing this
sort of thing.
Stephanie : I see our information,
really coming from the trenches, but then again with you being
an NLP practitioner and a hypnotist and me being a hypno-therapist
and NLP practitioner we have got a combination of the real life
experience and what it takes to therapeutically overcome these
things, so we don't have just the questions and the confusion.
Bart : You've used the word NLP
but for the people who don't know what that is can you describe
in a nutshell where the term NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming
came from and why is it important.
Stephanie : Commonly NLP stands for
Neuro Linguistic Programming, something that Anthony Robbins
made famous though it was not invented by him, but it was actually
contributed to by a lot of different people. So right now what
NLP is, is the way we communicate between our mind and our body
and the effect that we can have to create certain states of mind
and specially when you think about sexual rapport or chemistry,
how do we create that state, how do we access that, so that we
can have that kind of ecstasy when we want to.
Bart : That's a great definition.
Stephanie : So that's what I see as
NLP, being the ability to create that state when we want to.
Bart : You hear about people taking
seminars on NLP and for some their life still doesn't necessarily
work because they had these set of tools, but one of the great
things NLP did in late 70s, is it took a lot of these hypnosis
training like Milton Erickson's and all these things, and you've
heard about these therapists who sit down some one for an hour
and they no longer smoke, they no longer bedwet or they no longer
beat thier wives. Often these incredible cures occured in one
session - 30 minutes or less. What the NLP people did, Richard
Bandler and John Grinder, is they took this science and grew
it.
This isn't magic.
There are certain language (syntax) we are using, there are certain
pictures in our head, there are certain body language we are
doing and from these we are getting a sustained result and they
outline those and that's the big thing.
Stephanie : And basically how can you
replicate that or duplicate that for other people.
Bart : At will. Now you see
athletes having the impression of coaches saying how do I make
this shot every time. What you've done is we have extracted the
pearls and the things that we find more usable and tangible so
that we can say you're having an argument with your mate, here
are 3 questions that as a therapist I would ask, but you know
as a lover and a friend I'm going to ask the same questions.
How is it making you feel and so that's what it is when you talk
about NLP. You don't have to take these big long courses but
you can use some of the tangible techniques we are going to teach
you word by word and you'll find (a) your arguments and
pain in your relationships disappear or decrease considerably
and on the bright side you find there's ways to access levels
of ecstasy and orgasms that you had never even imagined.
Stephanie : So how do you think this
has transformed your own relationships with women? What is the
ability to communicate like this and create states in women?
What has it done for you?
Bart : Well, for a single person
the ability to meet and create instant rapport is phenomenal.
Stephanie : For the people who don't
know what rapport really means.... will you describe that for
them?
Bart : Rapport is the ability to
feel like you've known someone for years . It's the sense of
connection you have that you almost can't define if you see someone
on TV and you go "Oh man, that guy is gross CHEATOR. I will never
buy a car from him" or if you see somebody like an actress
"Oh ! what a sweet girl, she is my best friend" that's
the feeling but in person you have something called rapport or
you don't. And it's tangible but there's a way to get that unconsciously,
if you are aware of it.
Stephanie : So, it would be kind of
like the feeling if I am listening to some one and I just feel
like their voice just rings true for me or it just feels so familiar
like I have heard it before or something comfortable would that
be because we have a very good rapport then?
Bart : Yes absolutely, and further
more it's just that when you meet somebody or even after you've
known somebody, some people you feel like telling your deepest,
darkest secrets to and some how you don't know why you feel that
way. I am going to teach the listeners and you are going to teach
with me as to how you create those states intentionally. I can
meet somebody specially and talk about this more later there
is a skill called hand-writing analysis and within about 4-5
minutes of meeting a total stranger, I can look at their handwriting,
we can talk about some of their needs and expressions in sex
drive and self image and because of the other skills that NLP
has taught me, this women or this guy will sit there and tell
me secrets; they don't even tell their wife of 30 years and they
trust me implicitly and that's what rapport is, the ability to
connect with somebody at a deeper level.
Stephanie : No matter what it is for
whether it is for sex or whether it is for anything else. It's
good to have rapport with people because then you have true communication
when you really are in rapport.
Bart : A great relationship always
includes understanding and the ability to communicate. One thing
you'll find there is a lot of bullet points in the questions
are about sex. Sex, orgasm, penis, vagina all these words can
make us go "Oh! Ah !" but the underlying thing you
may find, is repeating a lot of concepts relating to communication
and love and that's what it's really about and specially for
the men in the audience, and say "News flash! Women want
to feel loved! Hello!" And for the men we will teach you
how to get all this.
Stephanie : And, More Sex
Bart : Exactly
Stephanie : The way I see it is certainly
I want better communication, want more love and all that and also
I want 'out of this world' sex. I am going to find a way for
my mind, my body and my partner to experience ecstasy like I
have never experienced it before and its all communication whether
it is verbal or non-verbal, that's the thing that makes me in
that state so that I can experience that.
Bart : You tell me. Great sex is
not somebody putting a finger in the right place with the right
pressure. That's not the most important element.
Stephanie : Well, it helps.
Bart : The videos say it, if you
know the technique, you get a rock and roll.
Stephanie : You just flick your tongue
this way and that and "boom... your sex life is now all
better." There's something else has to be fulfilled. In
order for me to feel that tongue as if it is from head to toe
on my body I've got to have something that puts me in that state
that lights me up. And I'll tell you that I know that this stuff
works and sometimes it is just almost unbelievable what you can
create if you have the right state of mind, the right person,
the right communication and rapport.
Bart : After you get this course
you may also have to put your new relationships through the training
course just to have permission to sleep with you from now on.
It's like I want to have these feelings and you are going to
give them to me that's one reason why I am pleased to be working
with you. You are the only woman I know who is going to say "I
want great sex" "darn it, I'm tired of this".
And you know what most women feel that way.
Stephanie : Absolutely, and you know
I work for a lot of women who are frustrated. They have been
married all these years their husbands are tired of them and
they really do want some mind blowing sex specially when they
get into their 30 and 40's. I mean the women are just blooming
they are ready. They are active and adventurous and open minded
and now we've gotten rid of our inhibitions and now we really
need someone who is really going to take it home for us.
Bart : There's a tip guys,
older women are good. If you knew this or not, you're still looking
at these 22 year old self centered women I'm telling you there's
something to the fact.
Stephanie : Absolutely its certainly
not just from my experience its from the women I work with that
are in relationships and are frustrated.
Bart : Let's get
to the bottom of this. Here is the purpose of this course.
We're going to assist
you in solving some of your deepest relationship problems.
We all want more
of something. Even you don't think you have problems... there
is room for improvelment.
In fact most of
the people listening in this course are probably successful in
a lot of areas and can use improvement in others.
I have never finished
sex and thought "that's as good as its going to get I hope
it doesn't get anything better than that"
I always want a
little better or a little more and that's what this is about
specifically you've asked me questions and I've not completely
answered.
We have a unique
understanding about what makes people tick. I don't have simple
stupid arguments. We don't argue for simple things. I don't get
my feelings hurt easily. If they have a issue, I say "you
know what man that's a good point. I am sorry."
Most people can't
communicate at that level of clarity and detach themselves from
the behavior enough to say, "Let's just shut up and have
fun."
Stephanie : In a romantic relationship,
if you remember, really the bottom line is that we just want
to be loved. We just want to be felt loved and accepted. There
is many many things we do to get there and sex is certainly one
of them that makes us feel loved. There are many many other things
in order to enhance that, so that's a lot of what we can cover.
Bart : And by the way fighting
and jealousy, those are all ways to feel more loved.
Stephanie : Yes, they are attempts
to get more . . . .
Bart : But not many people recognizes
that when you argue about jealousy ....it's rarely about the
ACTION someone did do. It's really a warning flag saying "Hey,
I'm not getting my needs but what can I do."
Stephanie : We are just screaming to
be loved, understood, accepted.
Bart : There was a book many years
ago. I guess I was in college and he was really a nice guy but
he said "love is the answer", and I thought, this is
so nice all you have to do is love and life will be beautiful
.
You know what this
doesn't work. You just can't say I am just going to love
everybody all the time. That's really not the one-two punch
we are trying to give you as just being an attitude adjustment.
I want you to walk
away with a bunch of tools in your tool belt that when something
comes up like when a man / woman is in front of you, your lover,
your mate or your husband, you know how to fix the problem and
if it is not a problem, then how to go from a good relationship,
or from a good sex experience to one of ecstasy.
Stephanie : Now how about a relationship
where it's really based on sex where there isn't any outcome
of wanting to love that person or have any kind of long term
commitment .
What can this course do for people who want to just have great
sex, be more adventurous and experiment a little bit.
Bart : Well, skip right on the
section on "hard core sex acts described" and literally
we've gone through all kinds of ways to be here playful, more
adventurous. We have talked about things like sex toys and dildos
and swingers clubs and all kinds of stuff you just don't hear
people talking about and for some people that does no interest
in you whatsoever and respect, and understand that but what we
felt is that we wanted to add these things to give you lots of
options. What is the like to tie somebody up ? What is the like
to watch a dirty movie ? What are these different options to
really make sex great? And by the way we were kind of making
fun of the technique of the 1 finger, we've included that don't
worry you not going to miss out on all that. We've showed you
where to touch, what it is, how to do it and specially for the
younger guys there is a term called clitoris, and we are going
to teach you what that is.
Stephanie : Yes ! From all women of
the world "Thank you." Bart just tell them where it
is .
Actually, one of the things for a lot of the women that is very
frustrating is that as much as men are loving and want to please
us, it's very hard to communicate what it takes for them to please
us because there are some anatomy considerations that are a little
tough to find. I think some of the things that we are doing in
this course are going to clear them up and you are going to zero
right in on the . . . .
Bart : The button,
so to speak.
Stephanie : The most important thing
of all. So, ultimately, out of all of it, we get adventure, we get excitement and we get to access
states of mind
and body that we haven't accessed before we get to be more
knowledgeable and
educated and also in communication
what it takes
to be love be loved
and I think there is a lot of information here that I am thrilled
to present.
Bart : Well, I think that is more
we can probably go to 80+ secrets but I think if you cover all
this you're not getting this course in one that night or even
in a week and you sure can't apply these things quickly but if
you go there it is not only a lesson in sex, I think it will
open your eyes to a new way of thinking about the world, about
yourself image, about your relationship with other people in
the fact that really the purpose and the way you interact with
people has to do with what you do. I think the sad part with
especially young people is that they are just looking for perfect
lover or if they had luxury of when they are young of having
an incredible lover they spend all their life trying to find
that one more person that makes them feel that good. Well the
big secret of the universe is you have control. That's the big
secret - you have control. You don't have to just wait for somebody
that happens to have god's gift of a perfect body, perfect hair.
Stephanie : You can make it happen.
Yes you can create it .
Bart : You can make it happen with
the partner you have right now, with some one you haven't met
yet, but you can make it happen, so you know its really optimistic
and empowering position to say wait a second, you mean all the
things in the world that you want I can use this piece of cerebrum
between my ears . . . .
Stephanie : Yeah! That's grey matter
there because that's where your sexuality really starts and ends
and that's where you create all the feelings of connections and
ecstasy and for people whose relationships have kind of dried
up. For people who are getting stale and bored, that's the place
they need to stimulate, is their brain.
Bart : Absolutely specially with
women, of course a lot of men growing into their 40's and 50's
become workaholics. What's happening is they like to work , they
need to work, but they are not getting that sense of adventure
and satisfaction in the bedroom. There is no permission to try
new things or they didn't know there was permission so they just
fill up their schedule with work.
Stephanie : And having no idea how
to bring it up one of the things we discussed earlier is, I do
therapy with couples very often . . . and so many of them can't
talk about it they might finally say, Oh look my husband and
I haven't had sex in 2 years, well what you guys say about that,
and they say, "Nothing, we don't talk about it we haven't
said a word about it." Probably with these couples, it just
starts with a little space of time a couple weeks or month and
another month sometimes its too embarrassing to talk about, so
how they bridge that gap, how they break their silence that's
going to be really important part of what we do so that they
can have some adventure and some sex.
Bart : By the way, some of these
questions even they are really only one or two minutes long.
How do I take my
girl friend into a threesome? They isn't just one way. Things
work better for some couples and don't work at all for others.
And, it may take TIME,
Same way with some
of the solutions here. You will have to do something a little
bit one day, wait a week do something else the next day and you
work into it. I mean
people
change that's
another big thing if you understand, people do change and they'll
change as long as the
change
brings them toward pleasure
and the pain is reduced and for most things that people have
big fears big phobias, or they're rigid or uptight or whatever
you call them, because fear is holding them there and the opportunity
to change is not attractive enough to overcome the fear. So we'll
talk about how fear plays an important role in our lives and
helps keep us from establishing the ultimate pleasure.
Stephanie : Excellent, a lot of we
do is because of our fear we don't proceed forward the thing
about fear, its just an illusion its absolutely nothing but something
that we create in our own mind and it doesn't even know it exists.
The fear we have of talking, bringing it up with our husband
whom we haven't talked to in 2 years about sex or had sex with
really it isn't any thing to be afraid of once you actually do
it, and this of course is going to give you the way to do it
the reason to do it the exercises, the instructions and everything.
It is just so awesome.
Bart : Okay let's keep going you
have got a lot of questions and lot of ground to cover and the
way this course works you go to the section you want to, you
go to the question you want to and click on it and start to listen.
Be very open minded and learn.
I
hope you have the levels of ecstasy that I never even dreamed
of.
Stephanie : I hope you email and tell
us about it, okay.
Bart : Those will be sexy emails,
won't they ?
Stephanie : Yes, we like that part .
Okay thanks for listening.
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